The Biggest Lie of Them All: “I’m Fine”

“I’m fine” is one of the most common phrases. But after “I read and agree to all the terms and conditions,” “I’m fine” may be the least honest of them all. Maybe more than a lie, it’s a shield.    “I’m fine” often means:  I don’t want to burden anyone.  I am not sure how to explain how I am feeling.   I don’t have [...]

Anxiety and Safety Behaviors

Anxiety and worry can make it difficult to be present within daily events and personal interactions, which can take the joy out of small and big life moments. For many people with anxiety, there's a strong desire to escape, reduce, or avoid anxiety situations, people, or things that increase this feeling. It is common to [...]

Spiral Grounding Technique

The Spiral Technique is really great for when a disturbing thought or memory seems to keep coming up for you in daily life. It is a technique that helps to take the focus off of the disturbance and the sensations that come up in your body when you think of this event. Here is how [...]